The Story of Truth

You are going to look a challenging circumstance that triggered your reactivity this week from the lens of your Whole IQ.

What is happening in this circumstance?
My boss talking to my team without me being present andgiving them instructions to do something without consulting my opinion.

Who or what is threatening to you in this experience?
My boss

What were you yearning or fighting for?
My bosses recognition and respect, I wanted my boss to acknowledge me and ask for my opinion.

What thought formed about yourself in this circumstance?
My boss doesn’t trust me and I don’t know what I’m doing.I am not competent

You are now going to look at the whole truth about this circumstance.

What energy did you and others not acknowledge in this circumstance?
I did not acknowledge that the reasons behind my bosses behaviour mght have nothing to do with me. I probably took this much more personal than it actually was.

What feelings did you and others not acknowledge in this circumstance?
My lack of confidence.

What thoughts did you and others not acknowledge in this circumstance?
I didn’t look to understand where my boss might be coming from.

What forms did you or others misuse in this circumstance?
Respect of space, lack of courtesy
Michele note: Perhaps some misunderstanding around the
use of power.

What is the whole truth that you see at this time about this circumstance?
Awareness that the other has Con Artist and that this doesn’t need to be about me. Boss could be acting from a need to prove something.

Our Con Artist uses our area of reactivity to prove that something is real which inevitably gets in the way of our ability to see the whole truth with greater clarity. What outcome have you been attached to and must let go of in order to see the whole truth with greater clarity?
Letting go of the attachment to being right and realizing that I can see others suggestions as valuable and be open to grow.

How will this grow your self-trust?
Through allowing me to learn, grow from others and not be threatened, and be more inclusive.

What do you need to remember to stay in greater faith?
I don’t know it all and don’t have to know it all.
Curiosity is a good thing and takes the Mind out of reactivity.

My intention for this week is…to be open to others suggestions and seek to learn from their suggestions.